Embracing My Authentic Self: My Natural Hair Journey

December 05, 2014 2 Comments

Embracing My Authentic Self: My Natural Hair Journey
Krystle Bell/ NGR Global Brand Ambassador

I started getting relaxers at an early age. Prior to my Just For Me days, I would get my hair pressed on a regular basis. As I got older, my hair became harder to maintain so my mother started giving me relaxers. I have thick, coarse hair so it was easier to maintain with the assistance of the so called “creamy crack”. I was able to have the long straight hair I always desired. Throughout the years, I kept getting a relaxer every six to eight weeks. In spite of breakage, shedding, and scalp burns, I kept subjecting my hair and scalp to this type of treatment.

I could not bring myself to stop getting relaxers because I was determined to have hair that was silky and easy to maintain. I was against going natural because I did not think my natural hair texture would look good on me, and I was emotionally attached to my relaxed hair. I am in the pageant industry so it was important to me that I maintained a certain look. I did not know how I would be received if I wore my hair in its natural state. Honestly, I was not comfortable with my own hair, but now my whole thought process has changed. I now know I was ignorant and had the wrong perception about natural hair. After educating myself on natural hair and the dangers of chemicals, I began to really think about going natural. Not only would I be able to experience long healthy hair, I would be doing my health a favor. I previously battled with endometriosis, and those chemicals entering into my blood stream did not aid me in experiencing total health and wholeness. On August 3, 2013, I went to the salon to receive my routine relaxer, and that visit went very wrong. Shortly thereafter I experienced some serious breakage. I knew that was my wake up call to make a change. On August 16, 2013, I made the decision to finally go natural. During the next five months, I prepared myself for next phase of my natural hair journey.

On January 2, 2014, after five months of transitioning, I did the “big chop”. I was nervous about the endeavor, but I was excited as well. I was finally able to see all of my natural hair. This was a cleansing process for me as well as an opportunity for me to reinvent myself. This day was also significant because on this day one year ago I started the Miss Black Glamour Pageant. The Miss Black Glamour Pageant is an online pageant for African-American women and girls. The pageant’s motto is “Celebrating African-American beauty and personality.” I am a firm believer that beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, shades, and hair textures.

Going natural is not just about having healthy, versatile hair; it is about total self-acceptance. Even though my natural hair has an “attitude” at times, it is teaching me patience during this season of my life. My natural hair journey has taught me that my beauty is not defined by my hair texture. I am beautiful because I have the courage to celebrate and embrace my authentic self.

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January 07, 2015

Go ahead Ms.Krystle whicha bad self…I an definitely gonna rock that hair style!

faye  sherman
faye sherman

December 20, 2014

I find all your natrual hair info informative and realistic. You are knowledgeble. I can understand. Your. Natural. Hair. Terminology well and I’m a 60. Yr old lady who is lovin to rock her natural. Hair I’ve decided to go with the tapered look now because my hair has gotten. To long an thick to twist in the back I have fibromyalgiia keep on. Rocking babygirl

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